Episode 072 - Sexting, Disability and So Much More - An Interview with Mari

February 9, 2018

In this episode, I talk with freelance model and blogger Mari Ramsawakh about their experiences with sexuality, disability and how those things intersect with non-binary sex, being a person of color and lots of other things, including sexting and how it can be an accessible medium for disabled people to navigate sexuality.   We want of on many tangents on this episode, it was awesome!

Mari's work can be found at: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/indivisiblewriting/


Twitter: https://twitter.com/merkyywaters


Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mari-ramsawakh-b5757458/


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/merkyy_waters/


Website: www.IndivisibleWriting.com


Episode 071 - Starting Again, Every Single Time - An Interview with Claire AH

February 2, 2018

On this episode, I talk with my friend Claire AH about her life and sexuality before and after a stroke.  We talk a lot about what happened for her, what disability means for her now, and what sex and disability now means for her.  It's a pretty great episode.   You can follow Claire at






Episode 070 - Andrew’s Drag Race: That Time I Did Drag as a Disabled Person

January 26, 2018

Okay, I loved recording this episode.  I talk about my foray into becoming a drag queen with a disability.  I talk about how doing drag connected to my activism around queerness and disability, I introduce you to my drag persona, talk about the challenges of dressing in drag as a disabled person, and so much more. 


Episode 069 - Why Planning For Sex is SO MUCH BETTER than Spontaneity as a Disabled Person

January 19, 2018

In this episode, I highlight why planning and scheduling sex as a disabled person is so much sexier than spontaneity.  I talk about the ways planning for sex has been pathologized by the media, but why I think it's hot as fuck, and why as a Queer Cripple I get off on it so hard.  Enjoy


BONUS Episode 068.1 - “Fuck Me Till My Heart Stops” - A Very Special Episode with Dick Wound

January 12, 2018

This is a very special episode that I recorded over the holidays with my friend and fellow podcaster Dick Wound, co-host of Off The Cuffs Podcast.  We recorded episodes on each other's shows, and we wanted to cross promote each other.... so rather than wait, I decided to release this one as a bonus episode.   We talk about kink, heart attacks, disability, sex, dark fantasies, shitty hearts, and so much more.  Enjoy!  Listen to Off The Cuffs each and every Tuesday wherever you get your pods. https://linktr.ee/ocpkink 


Episode 068 - Do You Even Crip, Bro? The Gym, Sex and Disability

January 12, 2018

In this first episode of 2018, we look at how gym culture and the pursuit of the gym cut body we all want so we can have "better sex" aligns with (or totes doesn't) with disability culture.  I share some of my experiences at the gym as a queer cripple, we can giggle at how inaccessible some of the workouts for better sex actually are, and I suggest that fucking a cripple might even be a better work out.   Enjoy!


Episode 067 - Clingosaurus Cripples

December 15, 2017

This episode is another throwback episode where I detail how my relationship with my biological father greatly impacted my intimate relationships as a disabled man later in life.  I discuss how my father turned me into a "clingosaurus cripple".  I also talk with Danny Kodmur about what being clingy as a disabled person means for him. 


Episode 066 - Sick, Sexy and Disabled

December 8, 2017
In this episode, I talk about what being sick, sexy and disabled means for me.  I share my experience trying to navigate being sick, disabled and sexy with C-Diff and when I was recently hospitalized.  I share how sickness and disability contributed to my sex drive.   I also talk to some other disabled people to find out how being sick and disabled plays a role in their lives. 

Episode 065 - Coming Out as a Queer Cripple to My Mom! An interview w/ my Mom, Sher St. Kitts

December 1, 2017

In this episode, I wanted to share part of my coming out story with you! I thought that rather than simply giving you my views on the experience, that I'd interview my Mom, and learn from her what my coming out as queer and disabled meant for her.  We talk about her experiences having a disabled son, her understanding of disability, my coming out and so much more. 


Episode 064 - Cripples-a-Kissing

November 24, 2017

In this episode, I explore the links between kissing and disability. We look at how people view kissing and disability; some of the challenges of kissing when disabled; I read comments left by my Facebook group about kissing and disability, and I talk to my friends Claire AH about kissing after a stroke; I also talk to Natalie Rose about what it's like kissing her disabled husband.