March 7, 2018

In this minisode, we hear from Jeff as he lets is know his thoughts on a past episode, and how he feels about masturbation and disability.  Send in your thoughts, feelings and ideas on all things disability to andrew@andrewgurza.com 


Episode 075 - Accessing Anal - 13 Tips To be a Better Disabled Top

March 2, 2018

In this episode, I look at "17 Tips on How to be a Better Top", and I re-jig it for the male-seeking male disabled community, calling it "13 Tips to be a Better Disabled Top".  We talk about how being a disabled top can be super awesome, and how disability should be included in these listicles.   



February 28, 2018

In minisode #03, I get a letter from Hayley who shares how being a sex worker with disabilities changed her life.

Hayley's contact info

Follow her on Twitter @bookhayleyjade or email her at bookhayleyjade@gmail.com

   If you wanna write in your thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams around disability and sexuality and tell me what's up, e-mail me with "Minisode" to andrew@andrewgurza.com 



Episode 074 - The Time I Hosted that “Handicapped Orgy”

February 22, 2018

In this episode, I talk in detail about the time I co-hosted the world's first "handicapped orgy." I go way in depth into the planning, media attention, backlash, positives, and I share whether or not there will be another one.  Enjoy! 



February 21, 2018

In this second minisode, we hear from contributor jennifer, who writes in with some thoughts she has about being disabled and a virgin at 22!   If you wanna write in and contribute to a minisode, send them to andrew@andrewgurza.com 


Episode 073 - Promposal or Pity-Posal? The Rise of Digital Ableism

February 16, 2018

In this episode, I talk about the rise of viral promposals where non-disabled people ask disabled teens to the prom in high school or middle school and have it recorded and it goes viral or gets picked up by the news outlets.  I share why I think this is problematic in all the ways and why I think we need to reconsider our consumption of "digital ableism" and promposals, and suggest that the disabled person may feel differently about the whole thing, and that the media must also focus on them.  I have included some examples of this digital ableism below.


Clip #1: 

Clip #2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uh-eeKpF1-c

Clip #3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyPRgYcQ0mA&t=172s  

Clip #4: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RqpM3wW1_uU 




February 14, 2018

In our very first DisabilityAfterDark Minisode, we talk about disability and Valentine's Day with sentiments sent in by Kate!  If you have thoughts, feelings, words or dreams you wanna have featured on a minisode, send them to andrew@andrewgurza.com using subject line Minisode!  enjoy!


Episode 072 - Sexting, Disability and So Much More - An Interview with Mari

February 9, 2018

In this episode, I talk with freelance model and blogger Mari Ramsawakh about their experiences with sexuality, disability and how those things intersect with non-binary sex, being a person of color and lots of other things, including sexting and how it can be an accessible medium for disabled people to navigate sexuality.   We want of on many tangents on this episode, it was awesome!

Mari's work can be found at: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/indivisiblewriting/


Twitter: https://twitter.com/merkyywaters


Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mari-ramsawakh-b5757458/


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/merkyy_waters/


Website: www.IndivisibleWriting.com


Episode 071 - Starting Again, Every Single Time - An Interview with Claire AH

February 2, 2018

On this episode, I talk with my friend Claire AH about her life and sexuality before and after a stroke.  We talk a lot about what happened for her, what disability means for her now, and what sex and disability now means for her.  It's a pretty great episode.   You can follow Claire at






Episode 070 - Andrew’s Drag Race: That Time I Did Drag as a Disabled Person

January 26, 2018

Okay, I loved recording this episode.  I talk about my foray into becoming a drag queen with a disability.  I talk about how doing drag connected to my activism around queerness and disability, I introduce you to my drag persona, talk about the challenges of dressing in drag as a disabled person, and so much more.