June 6, 2018

In Minisode #16, I talk with my friend Claire AH about disability, sexuality and how academia perceives that intersection.  She tells us about her experience putting her sexuality and disability into an academic paper, and how academia looks at sex and disability.

If you want to send in ideas for a minisode, send an e-mail to disabilityafterdark@gmail.com 


Episode 088 - Ableist Busting Sex Tech

June 1, 2018


In this episode, I look at the way we talk about technology advancements with respect to disability.  We love seeing wheelchairs that walk up stairs as ways to fix ableism, but other forms of technology like sex toys treat disabled people like sad, poor people who can't ever get laid.   I wanted to change that conversation and so by looking at sex dolls, virtual reality sex consoles and teledildonics, I discuss why these options could actually be great ways to incorporate disability into the sex tech industry in a positive way.  Enjoy! 



May 30, 2018

In minisode 15, we hear from Tea, who highlights ableism around be autistic in the lgbtq+ community, and the effects that has on them.  They talk about chronic pain, kink, knife-play, CPAP machines, and I offer them some important advice.


Remember, if you want to write in for a minisode, submit your thoughts/questions and anything about disability to disabilityafterdark@gmail.com 


Episode 087 - A Juicy Interview w/ actor AJ Murray

May 25, 2018

In this episode, I talk with actor AJ Murray, about sex, race, disability, acting work, fantasies, surrogacy, relationships, ass massages, and so much more.  This interview was jam-packed, but I think it was really important and I hope you enjoy it.



May 23, 2018

In this minisode, I get e-mails from Aaron and Erin.  Aaron tells me about a time when hot disabled sex took on a whole new meaning, and I offer Erin my thoughts on how to make museum culture more accessible.  

If you have a story/letter/thought about disability that you'd like to share, e-mail our inbox at disabilityafterdark@gmail.com 


Episode 086 - “Sitting is My Specialty” - An Interview w/ “Newly-Minted Disabled Person” Scott Jones

May 18, 2018

In this episode, I interview musician/activist Scott Jones about sex and disability.  Specifically we talk about his experiences becoming disabled, navigating sex and disability, his new documentary "Love, Scott" and so much more.  The word "Cocksultant" is born in this episode.

You can follow him on instagram: www.instagram.com/scjns, www.instagram.com/lovescott_film, www.dontbeafraidcampaign.org 



May 16, 2018

In Minisode #13, I get some crip confessional e-mails, from a listener who talks about converting to Christianity for a love interest, their mom thinking they had no sexuality b/c they were disabled.  They also write their feelings around disabled men getting able-bodied people pregnant and trying to get a vibrator adapted!   Enjoy.


If you want to write into w/ a minisode letter, send them to disabilityafterdark@gmail.com 


Episode 085 - DisabilityAfterDark Reviews “The Sessions”

May 11, 2018
Hey y'all!  In this episode, I review the 2012 movie about sex and disability that won over the world, "The Sessions." 
I have a lot of feelings about this indie darling that introduced the world to sex, disability and polio!    I have an included an essay written by Mark O'Brien, the central figure in this film who works with a sex surrogate to have sex for the very first time.  The movie was based on the essay.  
I am also including a written piece about what the movie might have looked like if it were centred around a woman with disabilities.
I hope you enjoy this jam-packed episode!


May 9, 2018

In this minisode, we get a letter from an anonymous person who tells us about their experience with an older partner, anal beads, and trying to keep their voice "lust-free" when their mom calls in the middle. 

If YOU have an idea for a minisode, send it to disabilityafterdark@gmail.com 


Episode 084 - One Year Older; More Crippled and More Queer

May 4, 2018

In this episode, I reflect on my past year of sex and disability.  I come out with some things I want to share with the audience.  I also share with you what scares me as a disabled person, and the kind of sex I want to have as your #1 Queer Cripple as I approach 34.  Enjoy!