Episode 099 - A Chat with Pleasure Professional Eva Sweeney

August 17, 2018
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and Pleasure Professional Eva Sweeney.  She tells about her experiences working in the field of sex and disability through O School.  Eva tells us hilarious stories about sex in her teens years; cum, dog hair and so much more.   This was a really fun one. 

Follow Eva's work at crippingupsexwitheva.com 



Episode 098 - That Time I had REALLY Good Sex as a Queer Cripple

August 10, 2018

This episode is a really fun, simple episode where I tell you all about some great sex I had recently.  I wanted to share because we so rarely hear disabled people telling great sex stories.  So often our sexual encounters as disabled people are bogged down with ableism, and I wanted to share a moment that was just some really good sex for this queer cripple.  Enjoy!  


Episode 097 - “99% Feelings, 1% Water” - An Interview w/ Rachael Rose

August 3, 2018
In this episode, I talk with chronically ill sex blogger Rachael Rose about her blog Hedonish.com.  We talk about sexuality and chronic illness, brain fog and sex, why she once named her illness "Fred"; what brings Rachael pleasure as a chronically ill person, our "jewish-ness" is revealed and so, so much more.   Be sure to follow Rachael's work at 
Twitter: @hedonish  

Episode 096 - Sex Toys, Eggs, Benches and Ableism

July 27, 2018

In this episode, I talk about some of the current sex toys on the market for disabled people.  I look at the ableist mess that is the "Intimate Rider" product and explore whether I think a Tenga Egg sleeve donated by Come As You Are would actually be accessible for someone like me by opening it live on the air.  I also talk more about my new venture to create the first line of sex toys for and by physically disabled people.


Episode 095 - Sex in a McDonald’s, Autism & Queerness: A Conversation with Morgan

July 20, 2018

In this episode, I talk with a listener all the way from the UK, Morgan.  We talk about their experiences with autism, sexuality, and queerness.  They tell us about sex in a McDonald's, how autism affects their sex drive, autism in dom/sub/daddy relationships and a whole lot more.   If you want to follow Morgan, you can do so here:





July 18, 2018

In this episode, I get an e-mail from an anonymous listener who talks about their journey with gender identity and also discusses a little bit about their dating history as an autistic non-binary person.  They also mention the lack of representation of autistic people dating in the media.   This was a nice, detailed glimpse into their world, and I was happy to read and discover that this podcast has been helpful to them.

PLEASE WRITE IN FOR A MINISODE to disabilityafterdark@gmail.com


Episode 094 - “Elisa and The Fishman” - A Review of “The Shape of Water”

July 13, 2018

In this episode, I review 2018's Best Picture Winner "The Shape of Water". I talk a lot about the ableism in the film, and how the central character (played by a non-disabled actress... ugh) shouldn't necessarily fall in love with a fish man.  I share some of my many issues with the film, as well as a few things I could relate to in love that I saw in this. I also share some reviews from disabled people who highlight just how ableist this romance between a deaf woman and a fish man actually is.


Episode 093 - Pride While Disabled

July 6, 2018

This episode is all about my feelings about Pride when you are disabled.  I share some of my experiences in Prides in 2018, and my issues with the organizational exclusion of disability by Pride orgs.  I focus in on Pride Toronto and how we can do better.    I also talk about some super ableist incidents that happened to disabled people during pride including Stonewall and Flaming Saddles Weho in LA.   I also coin the term "bahcumbug" in this episode. 



July 2, 2018

Wow, it's our 20th disaftdark minisode!  In this minisode, I get an e-mail from Jessica, who tells us all about their experiencing dating with a disability; whether they are gay or straight, and their comfortability in simply being alone and feeling complete.  It was an awesomely long e-mail, but it resonated with me, and I hope you enjoy!

Also, if you have a minisode idea that you want to share, please e-mail disabilityafterdark@gmail.com 


Episode 092 - Entertainment Tonight Made Me Gay; Which Celebs I Think Aren’t Ableist (and who I wanna fuck)

June 29, 2018

In this episode, I share with you that I love pop culture and celebrities along with sex and disability, so I combined these two loves.  I talk about the celebs that I think wouldn't be super ableist (and some who might be a little ableist), and who I'd like to fuck.   This one was so fun to do... Enjoy!