Episode 058 - My First (And Hopefully Not Last) Threesome as a Queer Cripple

October 16, 2017

This episode is a hilarious re-telling of my first (and hopefully not last) threesome as a Queer Cripple.  I share what I wanted the threesome to be, the reality of it, and what I learned from it for my next one.  Throughout the story, I touch on internalized ableism, sexual ableism, some funny moments and more.  Enjoy!

00:0000:00

Episode 057 - An Interview with Queerty Contributor Josh Galassi

October 9, 2017

In this episode, I sit down with Queerty contributor Josh Galassi.  He writes a lot about his experiences being queer and disabled.  We chat about coming out as disabled on apps, privilege, asking your lovers what they thought of you and your disability, and so much more.    

00:0000:00

Episode 056 - Sex, Disability and The Law

September 24, 2017

In this episode, I take a look at sex, disability and the law.  We talk briefly about The Ugly Laws, Eugenics, and discuss two cases that examine consent, sex, disability and the law.  Through these cases I explore how the courts and our legal systems have a lot of work to do in understanding disability, and suggest perhaps that the courts would rather rely on ableist prejudices than looking at things further. 

00:0000:00

Episode 055 - PwD - Porn While Disabled, Part 1: Why I Wanna Do Porn

September 11, 2017

In this episode, I talk candidly about my relationship to porn as a queer cripple, and how I came to learn about it in my youth.  In this first part of a miniseries I am calling "PwD: Porn While Disabled", I share why I think disability and porn are totally important, potentially problematic, and uncover why I myself might want to embark in the industry. 

00:0000:00

Episode 054 - A Conversation with Dating Coach on Wheels; Amin Lakhani

August 28, 2017

In this episode, I chat with "Dating Coach on Wheels" [www.datingcoachonwheels.com], Amin Lakhani about his experiences with sex, disability, tight clothes, jerking off, bow ties and muscular dystrophy.   This is definitely one of my fave episodes so far! Enjoy! 

00:0000:00

Episode 053 - Some Thoughts on Flirting and Disability

August 14, 2017

In ths episode, I take a look at some flirting advice from the book "The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability". I talk about how I feel about some of this advice and whether or not I believe the advice holds up in the real-life disabled flirting scenarios... p.s. I dont think the advice does.  I talk about my feelings around "Be Yourself" and "Be Bold" advice as a disabled person.  I suggest that the onus to "be bold", etc. really shouldn't be placed on the disabled individual.   Just some thoughts.  

00:0000:00

Episode 052 - Sex, Disability, Parents, The Media and Consent

July 31, 2017

This episode had me riled up and angry about the way the media ran stories from parents of children with disabilities without the children's consent.  I focus on 2 stories here about two parents who consider hiring sex workers for their sons to experience sex.  I had lots of things to say about that (mostly angry things), and I also touch on disability activists Carly Findlay and Kim Sauder's thoughts on the matter.   What do you think about parents talking about their disabled child's sex lives to the media?

00:0000:00

Episode 051 - Becoming Comfortably Autistic - An Interview w/ Alex Haagaard

July 17, 2017

For this episode, I got to sit down with disabled activist Alex Haagaard.  We talked about the intersectionality found on the autism spectrum w/ respect to sexuality.  This was a really important interview that touched on disability and sexuality in a new way for me, and I'm excited to share that with you!

00:0000:00

Episode 050 - What’s My Disabled Body Doing? An Interview w/ Sex Educator Eva!

July 3, 2017

In this episode, I talk to Eva who is a young, non-disabled sex educator, making sex education available via her Youtube Channel "What's My Body Doing".  

Link here:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpmgFWyoBQ00FjQBUOgMfAgsub_confirmation=1

We talk about the need for better sex education around disabilities, discover that even seasoned sex educators are afraid to talk about sex and disability, and I let Eva ask me some questions, so she can become a better sex educator.  Enjoy!

00:0000:00

Episode 049 - Shit Happens; Ileostomy Bags and Barbie Bums - An Interview w/ Kelly Bracken

June 26, 2017

In this episode, we talk about butt stuff...but not in the way you might be expecting.  I sat down with Kelly Bracken who reached out to the showing wanting to share her experiences with an ileostomy bag and how this has affected her sexual confidence.   The interview is fun, honest and touches on a topic that so many of us are afraid to go near.  Luckily, Kelly knows how to stay sexy when shit happens. 

00:0000:00